SEXUAL STIMULATION = HAPPINESS

Sensory pleasure is a driving force in the pursuit of happiness.

Pleasure equates to happiness. Many men, women and children actively pursue sensory pleasure in a desperate bid to retain the emotional highs that happiness brings, in their otherwise gloomy existence.

Through the stages of our sexual development from babies onwards, we experience self-exploration of our bodies, becoming aware of what our bodies are, how they function, what they do, how they feel.

We identify ourselves as a body. Our identity feels pleasure and it feels pain. When the innocence of joy we feel for the pleasurable experiences, is tainted and smeared with painful emotions, i.e. touching your genitals as a child, feels pleasurable. When an adult comes along and shouts at you, “STOP!” “Put that thing back in your pants where it belongs.” The pleasure has been smeared with associated feelings of shame. Hence, the more you experience these shameful emotions, the more guilt is implanted into your memory.

Then a sexual myth like ~ SEX IS DIRTY is firmly cemented into your beliefs about sexuality.

The relentless pursuit of sensory pleasure has begun in earnest, as the mind seeks to bring back the elated feelings of joy and happiness. Once caught in this slip stream, instant gratification of the sensors gives momentary fulfillment; then as this moment passes, a void is left. And the hunger, insatiable for pleasurable satisfaction stirs yet again. A bottomless pit, growling…

When the painful emotions are removed from the pleasurable experiences, balance is restored, i.e. sex is no longer believed as dirty. Sex is wondrous. The urges for over-stimulation of the sensors are silenced.

Pleasure is now the brilliance of life experiences emitting the glow which draws more incredible experiences to us.

Avec l’amour,

Shele & Michael.

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