WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST PROBLEM IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

The poll results are in for “What’s Your Biggest Problem In Your Relationship”.

In top position is Communication 41%.                           

Coming in a close second is Sex at 35%.

Then there is a dramatic drop to Money 9%, Other 8%, Infidelity at 5% and last, 2% for Children problems.
There you have it, the leading cause for relationship problems being the inability to communicate effectively.

Ineffective communication is also a major player in the 2nd Poll Position of Sex problems.

To find out how you can improve your relationship situation to one where love and happiness replace the top polling positions, click here.

Shele & Michael.

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RELATIONSHIP ESCAPE SWEEPING JAPAN

What becomes of the broken-hearted when they are still clutching to the dream of that perfect relationship that just slipped through their fingers?

They have checked into one of Japan’s Heartbreak Hotels of course. 

Inclusive to the Heartbreak Hotel is maudlin obsessing over the love that ripped out your heart and then danced with spiked shoes all over it. They were just getting their point across, they didn’t really mean to hurt you. 

Young lovers holding out hope with their troubled paramours can get drunk enough to stumble onto one of the other venues, like The Crying Room, for some much needed broken heart mending.

So if you’re looking for a holiday that is Sensible and in No Way Self Destructive where you are amongst faceless friends and can convince yourself that linguistic skills are debatable, then, book a room in a Heartbreak Hotel, and spend your hard earned cash to clarify to yourself just how much love does hurt when you’ve been dumped.

Shele & Michael.

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YOU HOLD THE SECRET KEY TO UNLOCKING THE POWER OF NOW

Morning all. It is 1am where I am in Australia at the moment. Inspiration has formulated this post in my mind. Many a time, I have let an opportunity to pass. Not today.

The power of now, this moment is fleeting. It is in the moment when miracles manifest.

I met a woman the other day, middle aged, shorter and fuller figured than I, with a pale complexion and dark hair.

An interesting woman. In the description of herself, she gave herself the label (tag) of a healer, with numerous qualifications to back this statement up. She was friendly and cheery towards me, even suggesting that I should come for a healing. During our conversations on this particular day, I began to notice - how ill at ease she was becoming. Her attention shifting, unfocused. A short while later, when we came face to face again it was obvious that she was extremely uncomfortable. Fidgeting, shifting her body weight from side to side, scanning the room, glancing at her watch every few seconds, shallow breathing, anxious.

What was going on here?

She then stated that she was waiting on a client for a healing. In an instance it all made sense. This woman was interacting with people from a blinkered view. What she was seeing were $ signs walking around. Money, money, money. You, or you, or you?

The dinner bell had rung when a person accepted her business. They became the potential tool for making money. She began salivating at this prospect. Waiting for the meal-ticket to show itself was inducing fear. “How much longer do I have to wait?” “What if it doesn’t come?”

Fear brings the shutters down in an instance. Nothing else exists until its hunger has been satisfied. Then the cycle starts up again. Here in this space and time, emotional intelligence will not arise.

The universe extends beyond our narrow mindsets. It has a wealth of miracles ripe for the picking.

The secret - be ready, be open and the universe’s riches will appear to you.

Shele.

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