FINALLY, REAL SEX FOR REAL WOMEN!

As we discussed in the previous post – SEX IN THE CITY TIPS FOR WOMEN, the key component for women in achieving better sex is intimately knowing your sexual anatomy.

Somewhere within the complex construct of the female anatomy lies the WOW factor of a full blown hot and juicy orgasm. An intense orgasmic experience can leave you feeling full of energy and exhilarated for hours.

You could say that the intensity of a woman’s orgasm is reliant upon the pelvic floor muscles and transverse abdominal muscles.  Strong muscles, strong orgasm. The weaker the muscles, the weaker the orgasm.

Dr Laura Berman, Sex Therapist, and author of Real Sex for Real Women who appears on Oprah, explains that there are three kinds of ways that women have orgasms.

ORGASM 1 – Clitoral: the most common kind of orgasm. It is the easiest to achieve not during intercourse.

ORGASM 2 – Vaginal: this is a more intense orgasm and is from the stimulation of the G-Spot inside the vagina.

ORGASM 3 – Blended: is the combination of clitoral and vaginal.

Sex in the City Homework

The G-Spot: Wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water. To locate your G-Spot lie on your back.  Insert a couple of fingers inside your vagina. What you are feeling for is your G-Spot which feels a bit like the tip of your nose.  Move your fingers towards your belly button side. This will help you find it.  When the G-Spot is being stimulated it will give you the feeling of needing to urinate.

It isn’t really that strange to discover where and how our own sexual anatomy feels.  By concentrating on what makes us feel good, we can direct our sex partners in more fulfilling sex play.

Shele

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WHAT WOMEN WANT IS BETTER SEX

The votes are in….

Most women do not know their own bodies.  They just do not look down “there.”  Women, you know where I mean.

For those women who want better sex, you need to know your own anatomy.  A lot of women, young and old, think that their pee comes out of their vagina.  The norm for being uninformed about the female body is a tattered and outdated concept that is neither cool nor sexy.

Sex in the City, the TV serial, as is prominently portrayed, has nothing to do with life for most women who are quietly struggling with their own sexuality. In general, the majority of women are locked into the sex myth of being “nice girls.”  Even with those whose ‘sexual exploring’ (promiscuity is the term  narrow minded people  use)  may be challenging this mythological ideal, there is a growing trend of going sexually overboard with riskier behavior, placing the younger generation of women in more and more unsafe sexual situations.

Black Book, a worldwide web site that is being accessed by young women, from teenagers to women in their 20’s.  On this web site, young women are starring in their own porn movies and posting them for the world to view.

Sex in the City Homework –grab a hand held mirror and take a look at down “there.”  Get up close and personal with your female body parts.  Look at your vulva. Touch it. How do you feel about it?

The first step in achieving better sex is for women to get sexually educated about themselves.

Shele.

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