SEXUALITY HIDDEN BEHIND SEXUAL BELIEFS

Getting a little uncomfortable… squirming restlessly in your chair?

GREAT!

You are face to face with your limiting beliefs.

Feeling defensive?

We humans, look at the world through colored glasses, the ones that fit our belief system. And it is not at all rosy.

When we look at a flower, then look at another, one that stands taller than the other, has a different shape of petal, and is varying in color. Do we automatically think that there is something wrong with it, because it differs in appearance to the other.

Yet, this is what we do to people who appear different to ourselves.

We judge them!

Sex and sexuality is a focal point in our belief system where this attitude is very apparent. We seem to be unconsciously drawn to the negative beliefs that we hold in order not to offend our own thoughts on the issue of sex and sexuality.

We just may not be “right” in our thinking, and who wants to expose that!

Is it better to be in denial, than change the way we think?

Changing our attitude towards sex and sexuality will open our eyes to endless possibilities that were not apparent before.

The sexual possibilities that were hidden behind those colored glasses.

Avec l’amour,

Shele & Michael.

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SHIFTING SEXUAL BELIEFS TO BENEFIT WELLBEING

Uncivilized behavior!!! Pole dancing is sexual; there is no mistaking that. And oh my, they do it in sleazy ‘Strip Clubs.’   Don’t they!

Beliefs, that is all it is.

Yet, it is beliefs that create wars, sexual abuse, terrorism, perceptions on what reality is.

Beliefs that are perceived to be true for one individual may not be held as the same for another.
When someone’s way of being, is judged as threatening to another individual’s, it is because that person, man, woman or child is fearful.

Their fears rise up, overwhelming any rational thought or action, and they attack at what is causing their emotional uneasiness. The attacks may be verbal, they may be physical, and it does happen.

Fears of what might happen. “What if?”

There is an exercise program for children which has hit the limelight - pole dancing for kids. It has raised more than eyebrows for some adults, they are outraged. The adults who are offended by such an exercise program for children appear to be getting sex and exercise confused. Kids love to have fun, something many adults have forgotten. Children are not adults in thought, belief or action and to think that they are for even for one minute shows us how little we really know of “who” children really are. For  men and women who themselves think that pole dancing as an exercise program for children is at all dangerous to developing young minds need to stop and think. Then have a good look at the fears about their own sexuality. You never know what kind of sexual wound may be festering in the dark recesses of their pretty little heads that may be in need healing. 

Men and women who keep a tight reign on sexual behaviors of any kind in thought (belief ) have control over their behaviors, (actions) which conflict with the natural rhythms of the human body.

You could look at it from this perspective -

In mind ~ virtues, such as “keeping up appearances”

In body ~ physical illness’s, like that of obesity

Is having a puritan attitude towards sex only feeding the fears associated with sexuality itself?

Let’s peer through the looking glass from a totally different perspective. One of the positive aspects of this children’s exercise program could be asked. “What will?”

The children who are participating, already are showing us that they are confident, eager to overcome their physical and emotional barriers. They have the mindset of a self- achiever.

Self-achievers, are healthier, happier and more balanced in thought and action than their more fearful counterparts.

In addition, the results done in a poll for The Health Smart Magazine on whether women would do pole dancing for exercise have shown that more women are for than they are against.  For further information go to http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart

Lets open our minds and let new ideas in, they may just be good for us.

Shele & Michael

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EROTIC SEX SHAPED BY OUR SEXUALITY

Sex, either we love it, and cannot get enough, or dislike it, longing for it to end, or not even getting out of the starting gate!

Pleasure and pain shapes our sexual experiences. It’s physical. It’s emotional. It’s transplanted into our personality. The complexity of life, can itself be broken into two halves.

Pleasure > YOU < Pain

They inspire us to behave in particular ways depending upon which one we have leaned towards. We are going to look at this from a sexual perspective.

Swinging too far towards the “pleasure” side, can produce instant self-indulgent kinds of sexual behaviors, while too far in the opposite direction, that is “pain’, can produce reactions like that of a fierce, revengeful scorned lover.

In sex, as in all of life, there are going to be pleasurable experiences and painful experiences.

Depending upon “what”motivates our perception, belief that is, is how we are going to respond to the experience.

 Pleasure < SEXUALITY > Pain

Yes, the source of our pleasure can also be the source of our pain. A double-edged sword, going in, twisting. Pure, blissful agony.

To live, is to feel the full spectrum of flawless, wondrous sensations. It is being human.

Avec l’amour,

Shele & Michael.

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