SHIFTING SEXUAL BELIEFS TO BENEFIT WELLBEING

Uncivilized behavior!!! Pole dancing is sexual; there is no mistaking that. And oh my, they do it in sleazy ‘Strip Clubs.’   Don’t they!

Beliefs, that is all it is.

Yet, it is beliefs that create wars, sexual abuse, terrorism, perceptions on what reality is.

Beliefs that are perceived to be true for one individual may not be held as the same for another.
When someone’s way of being, is judged as threatening to another individual’s, it is because that person, man, woman or child is fearful.

Their fears rise up, overwhelming any rational thought or action, and they attack at what is causing their emotional uneasiness. The attacks may be verbal, they may be physical, and it does happen.

Fears of what might happen. “What if?”

There is an exercise program for children which has hit the limelight - pole dancing for kids. It has raised more than eyebrows for some adults, they are outraged. The adults who are offended by such an exercise program for children appear to be getting sex and exercise confused. Kids love to have fun, something many adults have forgotten. Children are not adults in thought, belief or action and to think that they are for even for one minute shows us how little we really know of “who” children really are. For  men and women who themselves think that pole dancing as an exercise program for children is at all dangerous to developing young minds need to stop and think. Then have a good look at the fears about their own sexuality. You never know what kind of sexual wound may be festering in the dark recesses of their pretty little heads that may be in need healing. 

Men and women who keep a tight reign on sexual behaviors of any kind in thought (belief ) have control over their behaviors, (actions) which conflict with the natural rhythms of the human body.

You could look at it from this perspective -

In mind ~ virtues, such as “keeping up appearances”

In body ~ physical illness’s, like that of obesity

Is having a puritan attitude towards sex only feeding the fears associated with sexuality itself?

Let’s peer through the looking glass from a totally different perspective. One of the positive aspects of this children’s exercise program could be asked. “What will?”

The children who are participating, already are showing us that they are confident, eager to overcome their physical and emotional barriers. They have the mindset of a self- achiever.

Self-achievers, are healthier, happier and more balanced in thought and action than their more fearful counterparts.

In addition, the results done in a poll for The Health Smart Magazine on whether women would do pole dancing for exercise have shown that more women are for than they are against.  For further information go to http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart

Lets open our minds and let new ideas in, they may just be good for us.

Shele & Michael

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THE SEX MYTH DICTIONARY

Sex is it really that simple???

Who would have thought that by engaging in sex that we would be boggled by the intensity of emotional reactions that come along with the act.

We are going to explore the A-Z of Sex Myths by exposing the limiting beliefs (myths) that we as individuals have towards sex, sexuality and society sensitive sexual issues.  Our Sex Myth Dictionary is going to expose not only the sex myths but also the ways in which we as individuals direct these myths. i.e. how we express ourselves.

Behold as we identify the nature of sex myths and the ramifications of these myths upon our relationships as a whole, including key relationship areas – the sexual, the spiritual, the financial, the family.

Myths bring with them certain perceptions and a corresponding emotional matrix that dates back to the sexual foundations that were laid in through our childhood and that we as adults build upon, reinforcing the mythological structure already set in place.

A - Sex begins with a thought.

M&M

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