FINALLY, REAL SEX FOR REAL WOMEN!

As we discussed in the previous post – SEX IN THE CITY TIPS FOR WOMEN, the key component for women in achieving better sex is intimately knowing your sexual anatomy.

Somewhere within the complex construct of the female anatomy lies the WOW factor of a full blown hot and juicy orgasm. An intense orgasmic experience can leave you feeling full of energy and exhilarated for hours.

You could say that the intensity of a woman’s orgasm is reliant upon the pelvic floor muscles and transverse abdominal muscles.  Strong muscles, strong orgasm. The weaker the muscles, the weaker the orgasm.

Dr Laura Berman, Sex Therapist, and author of Real Sex for Real Women who appears on Oprah, explains that there are three kinds of ways that women have orgasms.

ORGASM 1 – Clitoral: the most common kind of orgasm. It is the easiest to achieve not during intercourse.

ORGASM 2 – Vaginal: this is a more intense orgasm and is from the stimulation of the G-Spot inside the vagina.

ORGASM 3 – Blended: is the combination of clitoral and vaginal.

Sex in the City Homework

The G-Spot: Wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water. To locate your G-Spot lie on your back.  Insert a couple of fingers inside your vagina. What you are feeling for is your G-Spot which feels a bit like the tip of your nose.  Move your fingers towards your belly button side. This will help you find it.  When the G-Spot is being stimulated it will give you the feeling of needing to urinate.

It isn’t really that strange to discover where and how our own sexual anatomy feels.  By concentrating on what makes us feel good, we can direct our sex partners in more fulfilling sex play.

Shele

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WHAT WOMEN WANT IS BETTER SEX

The votes are in….

Most women do not know their own bodies.  They just do not look down “there.”  Women, you know where I mean.

For those women who want better sex, you need to know your own anatomy.  A lot of women, young and old, think that their pee comes out of their vagina.  The norm for being uninformed about the female body is a tattered and outdated concept that is neither cool nor sexy.

Sex in the City, the TV serial, as is prominently portrayed, has nothing to do with life for most women who are quietly struggling with their own sexuality. In general, the majority of women are locked into the sex myth of being “nice girls.”  Even with those whose ‘sexual exploring’ (promiscuity is the term  narrow minded people  use)  may be challenging this mythological ideal, there is a growing trend of going sexually overboard with riskier behavior, placing the younger generation of women in more and more unsafe sexual situations.

Black Book, a worldwide web site that is being accessed by young women, from teenagers to women in their 20’s.  On this web site, young women are starring in their own porn movies and posting them for the world to view.

Sex in the City Homework –grab a hand held mirror and take a look at down “there.”  Get up close and personal with your female body parts.  Look at your vulva. Touch it. How do you feel about it?

The first step in achieving better sex is for women to get sexually educated about themselves.

Shele.

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TONSIL HOCKEY IS OUT, THE ART OF KISSING IS IN

You mean that there is an art to kissing?

According to author of The Art of Kissing, William Cane, there is.  After surveying 50,000 men he found that there are 30 ways that men love to be kissed that does not involve tonsil hockey.

William says that one of the favorite kisses is the sliding kiss, “Start by kissing your man gently around the perimeter of his lips, then brush your mouth across his cheek, before moving down and nibbling his jaw line.”

Men, get your sex partner to give this kiss a go and let us know how you rate the art of kissing.

Shele & Michael.

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ABORTION VERSUS MOTHERHOOD

You could find yourself in a situation when all of a sudden there is choice to make.  Yes, I’m
speaking of making a decision between abortion and motherhood.  Many women interviewed for The
Voice of Australian Women Survey, are feeling increasing pressure financially of having children.  Two out of five women who have terminated a pregnancy feel that abortion is validated because they were not in a financial position to have a child.  This concern is being echoed in more and more
younger women.

There is an rise in the number of women saying that abortion is an absolute right. In 1980, 62% indicated an absolute yes.  In 2007, 69% indicated an absolute yes.

There is a significant drop in the number of women saying that abortion should only be considered under certain circumstances, like when there is a medical threat to a woman’s life or rape.  In 1980, 32% gave a nod to this question, whilst in 2007, only 26% agreed.

Due to the complex nature of this sexual issue, more than one reason for abortion was given.
Below are the statistics for the main reasons for having an abortion.

3% indicated abortion due to being raped.

13% indicated that they had a child/children already and did
not wish to have anymore.

14% indicated that it was a medical necessity.

39% indicated that they were not in a financial position to
have this child.

41% indicated that they were not in the right relationship.

45% felt they were too young to have a baby.

Check out http://www.standupgirl.com where young women can talk freely about unexpected pregnancy.

Shele

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BLOGGING IN THE ONLINE DOMAIN NOT ALWAYS UP TO SPEED

Digital literacy opens up a world of possibilities for human interaction. Being technologically
capable is dependent on the online systems that we use to transmit our digital literature to you our eagerly awaiting audience.

Both Shele and myself have discovered that being online is not as easy as it looks.  Upon posting onto our blog in our latest of posts we have experienced major disruptive technological difficulties in delivering our blog content.  Not only have we experienced a problem with the blog post – The Secret of How to Achieve Sexual Success Exposed, all our blog postings between the 6^th of February 09 and now have vanished.

We are in the process of resubmitting all of the deleted posts and endeavor to get these to you as soon
as we can.  It will take time to put them all back in for your viewing.

For those of you who have subscribed to Sex News, when you click onto the link for these posts, you
will be directed to a blank page.  This information is no longer existent.  You shall be receiving these blog posts again in Sex News when they are back in our blog system once again.

Michael.   

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