EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE V FAMILY LAW

AN INTIMATE LOOK INTO AUSTRALIAN FAMILY LAW 

Only last week, I had a memorable life experience.  I appeared as a witness in an Australian Family Law matter.  This did not come about overnight.  This Family Law  process has gone on for longer than I can count the fingers on my right hand, and has been called to trial for a total number of fingers I have on my left hand.

Resolution has a price.

Whilst in the witness box, during the court proceedings, I experienced a Family Law Barrister who was determined to extract verbal statements from me according to her agenda.  Like Lisa and Bart from the TV show, The Simpsons, who hounded their father, all day and all night, until he cracked, and gave them the answer they wanted to hear. The Family Law Barrister applied the same tactics.

The Family Law Barrister was likened to a pit bull that had clamped its incisor filled jaw upon my leg, applying more and more pressure with its bite, until the recognizable command for release was given.

Truth, forced and manipulated, no longer remains truth.  It becomes a distortion of reality.

Upon reflection of this event, I realized that the Family Law Barrister’s intent was just the same as the man who punches his woman partner in the face and asks, “Do you love me?”  The delivery by the Family Law Barrister was different to the man’s, yet the outcome  was the same -  a contrived result.

The Secret – reflecting on life’s events gives insight into the general happenings of life’s situations, raising awareness of what emotional intelligence is, and is not.

Be sure to look for our next post in relation to our Family Law experience.

Shele.

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A KINGDOM OF PROSPERITY

BELIEVE TO SEE THE SECRET

The secret –  in each moment of every experience of life’s situation lies a secret waiting to be exposed, a kingdom waiting to be discovered.  With a vision of prosperity we bring the secret kingdom into existence.

Whether we are a man, woman or child, creation begins with a thought,

Shele and Michael.

  

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NEW MEDIA MARKETING A UNIVERSE IN CYBER SPACE

BLOG CREATION CHALLENGES LIMITING BELIEFS
 

When we set out to create this blog we both had some BIG ideas.  Huge in fact, but not all together bright.  What was lacking in ourselves was our understanding of this new media marketing medium.  Cyber space has a unique flow. A whole universe of diversity to be explored. 

At times we stand with our mouths wide open, unable to utter a single word, for we are in “awe” of such an elaborately created universe. A universe that we are now only beginning to understand. 

Moving in synchronicity with this environment, the blog, is ensuring that we are advancing toward maximum growth in ourselves and within our relationship.  By gathering and utilizing the tools that new media marketing presents to us we are implementing change in our blog. 

The secret – aim for the stars.  Think big.  Challenge limiting beliefs.  Conquer fear.  Achieve goals. 

Keep dreaming,

Shele and Michael.

 

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EXPOSING THE UNSEEN UNIVERSE

ENERGY IN MOTION

Now that you have a grasp of your universe and my universe as explained in our previous post, Standing At The Centre Of The Universe, let’s stretch your imagination a little further. 

When our own individual universes are contracting, our energy is within ourselves.  It is contained in our own energy field.  When your universe is in expansion it is connecting with the external environment.  This environment is another person, an object, an animal, a plant…. 

Your universe has linked with the energy field of the external environment. 

It is the quality of this link that will determine the life experience that we will have. 
For example, Shele is feeling somewhat annoyed.  Michael connects with Shele by saying, “Good morning.”  Shele whose feelings were contained within her universe (her energy field) are now directed towards Michael’s universe (his energy field).

What Michael feels enter his universe is Shele’s anger. He instantly recoils from this energy and physically moves away.  

By putting distance between their energy fields, they disconnect. 

Where we focus our attention is where our energy goes to.

The secret – by establishing a partnership of two or more connecting universes, whose relationship comes from a conscious intention of purpose, all things can be made possible.

Live wisely,

Shele and Michael.

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THE SECRET KEY TO THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF INNER SPACE

A POWERHOUSE OF ENERGY 

The secret being anchored in our inner space during the periods when our universe contracts is where it is possible to enter into the kingdom of secrets.

Something to think about,

Shele.

 

 

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