EXPOSED – THE SECRET TO SEXUAL SATISFACTION

“A terrible hollow seemed to menace him somewhere, somewhere, a void, and into this void his energy would collapse. Energyless, he felt at times he was dead, really dead.”

D.H. Lawrence ~ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

Watching just this, transpiring in a marital relationship on a midday television program: Secrets in the suburbs, exposed very clearly, how this really can and does happen. We are dead inside.

Somewhere along the way, we denied to ourselves what we felt. This couple, man and woman, both feeling dead. How they felt towards each other, also dead.

“there awoke in her new strange thrills rippling inside her. Rippling, rippling, rippling, like feathers, running to points of brilliance, exquisite, exquisite and melting her all molten inside. It was like bells rippling up and up to a culmination. She lay unconscious of the wild little cries she uttered at last.” ~ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

This brief exert, alive.

Wow!

Who feels like this?

The couple on the TV?

You?

Me?

Sexual expression is so much more than the act of sex. It is feeling alive. I know that when I have felt dead, it is because I have stopped myself from feeling the passion, the pleasure, the lust, the WOW!

This couple, man and woman stopped themselves from feeling the WOW!

How?

They stopped acknowledging each other as sexual individuals with differing thoughts, feelings, beliefs and fantasies. They expected each other to be just like them, wanting the same sexual experiences.

Michael loves eating mangoes. Shele does not. Should Michael then expect Shele to want to eat them to?

How then do we overcome this difference?

Micheal places a bowl filled with mango icecream on the table and invites Shele to have a taste. Shele tries a small portion of mango icecream ~ mmm..enjoyable. I have stretched my limitations to accept a new experience. We sit together sharing spoonfuls of icecream.

It is the same with how we approach sex.

The secret – Peel off your restricting undergarments. Limiting beliefs are only a thought. We can change our minds.

Shele & Michael.

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YOU HOLD THE SECRET KEY TO UNLOCKING THE POWER OF NOW

Morning all. It is 1am where I am in Australia at the moment. Inspiration has formulated this post in my mind. Many a time, I have let an opportunity to pass. Not today.

The power of now, this moment is fleeting. It is in the moment when miracles manifest.

I met a woman the other day, middle aged, shorter and fuller figured than I, with a pale complexion and dark hair.

An interesting woman. In the description of herself, she gave herself the label (tag) of a healer, with numerous qualifications to back this statement up. She was friendly and cheery towards me, even suggesting that I should come for a healing. During our conversations on this particular day, I began to notice - how ill at ease she was becoming. Her attention shifting, unfocused. A short while later, when we came face to face again it was obvious that she was extremely uncomfortable. Fidgeting, shifting her body weight from side to side, scanning the room, glancing at her watch every few seconds, shallow breathing, anxious.

What was going on here?

She then stated that she was waiting on a client for a healing. In an instance it all made sense. This woman was interacting with people from a blinkered view. What she was seeing were $ signs walking around. Money, money, money. You, or you, or you?

The dinner bell had rung when a person accepted her business. They became the potential tool for making money. She began salivating at this prospect. Waiting for the meal-ticket to show itself was inducing fear. “How much longer do I have to wait?” “What if it doesn’t come?”

Fear brings the shutters down in an instance. Nothing else exists until its hunger has been satisfied. Then the cycle starts up again. Here in this space and time, emotional intelligence will not arise.

The universe extends beyond our narrow mindsets. It has a wealth of miracles ripe for the picking.

The secret - be ready, be open and the universe’s riches will appear to you.

Shele.

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CHILDREN EXPOSE CONVICTION OF THE HEART – LOVE

Our three children, aged between 2 and 6 are a blessing. They have a striking conviction of the heart. A living example of the greatness of love. These physically small people have within them the capacity to evolutionize humanity. The secret to creating this reality lies in our hands (the parents).

Our children are challenging us to open up. Extraordinarily, they are binding us together as a family. Some time back when Michael and I were in the midst of an intense argument, our eldest daughter who was then 5 interrupted. What she did in that moment stopped us dead. She looked at us both and said in a soft voice, “Let’s build a home together.” Next, we received a warm hug.

The power of now, this very moment, determines the quality of our relationships. It is what we do in this moment that can produce outstanding results for us as a family.

Amazingly, it is our children who are taking us by the hand and gently leading us on the path to knowing love.

Shele.

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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE A STATE OF BEING

Recently my daughter, who is of the age of six, and myself were in a store. As we were leaving, my daughter turned to me and said in a rather loud voice, “Mummy, look at that fat woman.” I looked. My daughter’s observations were in deed true. Before me stood one of the largest women I have ever had the opportunity of laying eyes on. It was not her size that took my breath away, it was her remarkable presence. It was as though I had been delivered into the hands of royalty. She stood there, tall, sure of who she was. Powerful. Adorned in a majestic, royal blue colored skirt. The sequins shimmered when the brightness of the overhead florescent lights shone upon them. The satiny fabric shimmied with her movements. The crushed velvet inlays gave a depth to her eyes. Deep, dark, pools containing her life’s secrets. This has been one of the most humbling experiences that I have ever had.

It has been said that Saint Francis was capable of seeing beauty where others could not. Was he looking through the eyes of someone who had achieved an evolutionary emotional intelligent state of being?

Look closer…

Till the morrow,

Shele.

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